If you have been asking your friends how you can win back your ex girlfriend, then you were probably surprised at some of the responses you got. It's possible that your friends, or at least some of them, don't want you to get back with your ex girlfriend because they would rather you be single. Being single means that you would have more time for them.
Though it seems only natural that you would ask your friends for advise concerning your love life, they are actually the worst people that you could ask. First of all, they are not going to be impartial but rather biased towards you and unable to recognize the fact that you may have been at fault. Also, before asking a friends advice, look at their current circumstances and what type of relationship they are in. If they are not in a successful relationship themselves, then they may not be qualified to give relationship advice.
If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back and think there is a chance, then you should tell her. If the break up was caused by something you did, then apologize and let her know that you want to give your relationship another try. But before you do, make sure this is what you want and you are willing to change, because you will not get another chance if you mess it up again.
There is a lot of relationship help out there so you should study up on it and get advice from people who have helped couples get back together and make it work. Love is a two way street and both sides need to give. Try and remember what attracted you to each other in the beginning and what it was that made you fall in love. It is possible to rekindle that fire, but be sure you don't over do it. Give her some space. You don't want to come on too strong, and you surely don't want to act desperate and show up at every place she hangs out. Stalking her could be your biggest mistake and would eliminate any chance of ever getting her back.
Take care of yourself and always dress properly so that when you do bump into her you look your best. Let her see that you are doing well physically as well as emotionally. Be friendly and considerate. Let her see how you still adore her, but don't give her the impression that you can't go on without her. She needs to see that you are strong and able meet life head on with or without her.
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